Showing posts with label Feminism. Show all posts
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Friday, March 1, 2024

Ayisha Malik - The Movement

 



Ayisha Malik - The Movement 

2⭐

Genre: Fiction, Contemporary, Feminism, Literary Fiction 

Format: E-Book

Publisher:  Headline

Date Published: 21st July 2022


 

Book Blurb: 

With words come power. But do you speak out or shut up?

Everywhere Sara Javed goes - online or outside - everyone is shouting about something. Couldn't they all just shut up? One day she takes her own advice.

At first people don't understand her silence and are politely confused at best. But the last thing Sara could anticipate is becoming the figurehead of a global movement that splits society in two.

The Silent Movement sparks outrage in its opposers. Global structures start to shift. And the lives of those closest to Sara - as well as strangers inspired by her act - begin to unravel.

It's time for the world to reconsider what it means to have a voice.

A sharply observed novel, charged with compassion and dark wit, that will spark important conversations about how we live, relate and communicate now.

My Review: 

The Movement follows Sara Javed, an author who became famous due to writing a book about her experience as a minority female, however, as time moves on she realises that everyone is talking about something and all these voices are just getting mixed up together creating chaos. In her mind words are losing meaning, thus she decides to stop talking and stop communicating. Her silence quickly grows into a movement called Non-Verbalism, and it all suddenly becomes very political. However, Sara’s choice to become silent doesn’t only affect her, it affects millions of other people, including those of Grace and Zeinab.

The premise of this book intrigued me so much and honestly, I had quite high hopes for it. It just sounded so unique and unusual, so I had to pick it up…The story and characters had so much potential to be explored in depth, however, sadly that didn’t happen, at least for me. The author, instead of exploring characters in the story in more depth, chose to talk more about politics and societal implications surrounding the so-called ‘Non-Verbalism Movement’ that the main characters in this book partake in. Although all of the social and political commentary in the book on important issues, such as feminism, freedom of speech, and oppression is very important to talk about and to explore, it made me not care about the characters and their stories. I felt that if that social and political commentary were more intertwined with certain characters or communicated by them, then the book would’ve been 5 stars for me.

The writing however was brilliant, the book flowed very well and it was quite a quick read. I also liked how the book didn’t shine away to show how we as a society are interconnected and how someone’s even the smallest decision can affect us all. Characters in this book also reveal how much we are dependent on technology and communication in the 21st century and how much our lives would be different if those changed.

In terms of the characters, I wanted more from the main character Sara. With her, it just didn’t feel like she grew as a character, and from the very beginning there were times when she was quite insufferable. That said, the other characters, especially Zeinab and Grace, had amazing character development and even though I wanted more depth in their stories, their character development was brilliant.

Overall: Very intriguing premise and idea, excellent writing and issues discussed, but, for me, the book felt flat. However, if you like books with in-depth political and social commentary then I would recommend this book, as it does discuss quite a few important and controversial topics of the 21st century. 


About the Author:

Ayisha is a British Muslim, lifelong Londoner, and lover of books. She read English Literature and went on to complete an MA in Creative Writing (though told most of her family it was an MA in English Literature – Creative Writing is not a subject, after all.) She has spent various spells teaching, photocopying, volunteering and being a publicist. Now, when she isn’t searching for a jar of Nutella in her cupboards, she divides her time between writing and being managing editor at Cornerstones Literary Consultancy.

Ayisha is one of WH Smith's Fresh Talent picks, Winter 2016.

https://twitter.com/Ayisha_Malik

Friday, September 22, 2023

Cho Nam-joo - Kim Jiyoung, Born 1982



Cho Nam-joo - Kim Jiyoung, Born 1982 

4 ⭐

Genre:  Fiction, Translated Fiction, East Asian Fiction, Asian Fiction, Contemporary Fiction, Feminism 

Original Title: 82년생 김지영 [82nyeonsaeng Gimjiyeong]

Original Language: South Korean 

Translated by: Jamie Chang 

Pages: 168

Format: Kindle 

Publisher: Scribner UK 

Date Published: 20th February 2020


Book Blurb: 

Kim Jiyoung is a girl born to a mother whose in-laws wanted a boy.

Kim Jiyoung is a sister made to share a room while her brother gets one of his own.

Kim Jiyoung is a female preyed upon by male teachers at school. Kim Jiyoung is a daughter whose father blames her when she is harassed late at night.

Kim Jiyoung is a good student who doesn’t get put forward for internships. Kim Jiyoung is a model employee but gets overlooked for promotion. Kim Jiyoung is a wife who gives up her career and independence for a life of domesticity.

Kim Jiyoung has started acting strangely.

Kim Jiyoung is depressed.

Kim Jiyoung is mad.

Kim Jiyoung is her own woman.

Kim Jiyoung is every woman.

Kim Jiyoung, Born 1982 is the South Korean sensation that has got the whole world talking. The life story of one young woman born at the end of the twentieth century raises questions about endemic misogyny and institutional oppression that are relevant to us all.

Riveting, original and uncompromising, this is the most important book to have emerged from South Korea since Han Kang’s The Vegetarian.


My Review: 

A very unusual book that made me wonder whether I liked it or not. Yet, it explores topics that are so important and not talked much about in different media channels. It sits in between that blurry line of facts and fiction. Again, although not a big book, it packs so much. The writing and flow are also very quick-paced. For me, it wasn’t a light-hearted read, especially because it covers what is like to be a female in modern society and that modern society still lives partly in the past and is restricted by ingrained culture and traditions.

The story follows the life of Kim Jiyoung, from her childhood to the present day when, whilst being a mother one day she just loses her own true self, due to pressures that are prescribed to her by South Korean societal norms. For her family, especially her husband, Kim’s breakdown seemed very bizarre, but as we see her life from the very beginning, realisation comes as to why it happened. Kim faced prejudice, abuse, sexism, misogyny, and patriarchy at all points in her life until one day it was too much for her to take.

This book also portrays women who came before Kim, like her mother and her grandmother and doesn’t shy to show how men are oblivious when it comes to gender inequality or misogyny or sexism. Additionally, mental health and people’s oblivious attitude to issues like postpartum depression, and pregnancy blues are also discussed. This book unpacks this and so much more in such a short story.

Overall: It is a very unusual yet very important book that I think everyone should read, as it shines a light on gender inequalities that are ingrained in cultures and traditions.

 

About the Author:

Cho Nam-joo is a former television scriptwriter. In the writing of Kim Jiyoung, Born 1982 she drew partly on her own experience as a woman who quit her job to stay at home after giving birth to a child.
Kim Jiyoung, Born 1982 is her third novel. It has had a profound impact on gender inequality and discrimination in Korean society, and has been translated into 18 languages.
https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/18720847.Cho_Nam_joo

Thursday, February 2, 2023

Florence Given - Women Don't Owe You Pretty



Florence Given - Women Don't Owe You Pretty   

2⭐

Genre: Non-Fiction, Feminism, Self-Help, LGBTQIA+, Mental Health 

Pages: 226

Format: Hardback

Publisher: Cassell, Octopus Publishing Group 

Date Published: 11th June 2020


Book Blurb: 

WOMEN DON'T OWE YOU PRETTY will tell you to...
love sex, hate sexism,
protect your goddamn energy,
life is short, dump them,
And that you owe men nothing, least of all pretty.

Florence's debut book will explore all progressive corners of the feminist conversation; from insecurity projection and refusing to find comfort in other women's flaws, to deciding whether to date or dump them, all the way through to unpacking the male gaze and how it shapes our identity.

WOMEN DON'T OWE YOU PRETTY is an accessible leap into feminism, for people at all stages of their journey who are seeking to reshape and transform the way they view themselves. In a world that tells women we're either not enough or too much, it's time we stop directing our anger and insecurities onto ourselves, and start fighting back to re-shape the toxic structures of our patriarchal society.

Florence's book will help you to tackle and challenge the limiting narrative you have been bombarded with your whole life, and determine feminism on your own terms. After all, you are the love of your own life.


My Review: 

Last year I read Girl Crush by Florence Given, which was her first fiction book. That book had a lot of potential but just fell flat. However, I thought I will give Given another chance and read her non-fiction book with an open mind.

I honestly tried to like this book but it was bad…Don’t get me wrong, Given touches on some very important issues in this book, but for the most part, it felt that she just continuously repeats the same things over and over again. Apart from her opinion on numerous issues and stating that these issues of sexism, abuse, representation, racism, and privilege, to name a few, exist, she doesn’t offer the reader any solutions or any deeper insights, other than her own views. Also, for me, the lack of facts and references to support Given’s opinions and claims is what made me really dislike this book. At times it just felt that she is going in circles in this book without adding any value, without offering any learning or any important messages for readers to take away from this book.

I personally really disliked the chapters on relationships, men and marriage. All those chapters felt very patronising, especially it felt that Given is telling the reader that we are all better off alone and single or queer, rather than having boyfriends or partners that are male. Also, in a very aggressive way, it was stated that if you want a marriage then you cannot be a feminist and love yourself as much, since you are stuck with a man. I just felt that the author hates males and doesn’t hide that fact, unconsciously making the reader feel bad if they are in a long-term relationship or have a partner or want a marriage.

Also, didn’t agree with the fact that Given thinks we should all be learning from social media rather than formal education and that social media these days is worth more than formal education. Again, no solutions or facts and figures were given to support this claim, which I would have been interested to read, as it is an interesting claim, but isn’t worth much if not supported by facts.

The only takeaways (which I don’t think we're the intended takeaways) from this book were that you aren’t a real feminist if you aren’t single or queer, you aren’t a feminist if you desire to have a relationship with a male partner, you are better off single as men will ruin you, and if you want to have pleasure use toys or have one-night stands, rather than have a long-term partner.

Overall: The only positives I took from this book were that it was quick and easy to read and that I finished it in a few hours. There are definitely better books about these issues and feminism from authors, such as Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie (We Should All Be Feminist), Caroline Criado Perez (Invisible Women), and Bernardine Evaristo, that actually offer not only their opinions and experience of these issues but also offer in-depth solutions, explanations, facts and figures. Don’t think that after this book I will be ever reading anything by Florence Given. Just don’t think her writing and books are for me. 


About the Author:

Florence Given is a London based artist and writer.

In 2018, she launched a petition to cancel Netflix's controversial fat-shaming series 'Insatiable', it gained over 300,000 signatures in a matter of days. The story became global news and she appeared on many news networks across the US and UK, as well as being interviewed for various publications including Huffington Post and Grazia.

A London-based artist and writer, Florence addresses social issues with unique and playful illustrations. She grew up in Plymouth and attended London College of Fashion. Boasting over 193k followers on Instagram, her work confronts oppressive attitudes towards women and their bodies, and she uses her platform to raise awareness of issues surrounding sexuality, consent, race and gender.

Florence designed the merchandise for Rita Ora's Girls Tour in May 2018, curated her first exhibition 'Girls Interrupted, and designed a limited-edition t-shirt for the fashion brand WEEKDAY. Alongside the tee (which featured the slogan "WOMEN DON'T OWE YOU PRETTY"), the entire collection sold out in under an hour.
https://www.florencegiven.com/

Wednesday, June 29, 2022

Tahmima Anam - The Startup Wife




Tahmima Anam - The Startup Wife    

4 ⭐

Genre: Fiction, Contemporary Fiction, Science, Technology, Feminism 

Pages: 296

Format: Paperback  

Publisher: Canongate Books

Date Published: 3rd June 2021


Massive thanks to Canongate Books for a copy of the book and for the invitation to join Canongate's June 2022 Readalong! 


Book Blurb: 

A quirky, funny, deeply intelligent story of love, big dreams, starting up and feminist geekdom

Halfway through her PhD and already dreaming of running her own lab, computer scientist Asha has her future all mapped out. Then a chance meeting and whirlwind romance with her old high-school crush, Cyrus, changes everything.

Dreaming big, together with their friend Jules they come up with a revolutionary idea: to build a social networking app that could bring meaning to millions of lives. While Asha creates an ingenious algorithm, Cyrus' charismatic appeal throws him into the spotlight.

When the app explodes into the next big thing, Asha should be happy, shouldn't she? But why does she feel invisible in the boardroom of her own company? Why are decisions being made without her? Gripping, witty and razor-sharp, The Startup Wife is a blistering novel about big ambitions, speaking out and standing up for what you believe in.


My Review: 

The book begins with Asha Ray who meets her high school crush Cyrus Jones later in life whilst completing her PhD. They fall in love instantly and get married within a couple of months of reuniting. Whilst they start their married life, Asha notices that Cyrus has this aura, this book of knowledge about religions and can bring a sense of community and belonging to anyone he speaks to. People from different kinds of life love him and accept him. This gives her an idea to use the knowledge that Cyrus has and create a social media platform where people can build their communities based on what they believe in so they can feel like they belong somewhere. On this social media app, they can request rituals based on different religions and people’s lifestyles, which then connect them to like-minded people all over the world. All with the power of AI and the knowledge that Cyrus poses. That’s how WAI is born. Book then follows both, the creation of WAI and Asha’s relationship with Cyrus, whilst covering how everything starts to crumble after Cyrus wants more and more power and is branded as The Messiah by millions of people.

My favourite part of this book was the power relationship between Cyrus and Asha. She believes that nothing will come in between their love and marriage, because they are soulmates. However, once Cyrus tasted the power and fame, he starts to completely ignore Asha and her input for the platform. He wants to do it his way, thus when Asha stands up to him, as a CEO he just fires her from the board and replaces her. For me, that was so interesting as Asha didn’t see that as a big issue, since she loves Cyrus so much. She then thinks that maybe she was wrong to stand up to him and challenge him, even though she is the brains of the WAI. She is the one who created the platform, she was the one who encouraged Cyrus (who didn’t want to) to become a CEO and she was the one who came up with the idea in the first place. Yet, she is the one who doesn’t get any credit, although is usually right about things.

I also liked how gender and race are explored in this book. How Asha with her idea of WAI didn’t get any funding from big corporations but once Cyrus stepped in as CEO, he straight away got people interested in funding WAI. There are many other examples in the book, where female tech start-ups are less favoured than start-ups created by males.

Some bits of the book was too slow for me, especially how they got the WAI going. I think it was way too long spent on that when Asha’s and Cyrus' relationship could’ve been explored in more depth. I felt that some bits of their relationship was covered too quickly so as well as, so all of the things that happened at the end of this book were so abrupt.

I couldn’t connect with Cyrus' character at all and at times his character just plainly annoyed me, whereas I loved Asha’s character. I have to admit, her character did annoy me a few times but only because she kept putting herself down thinking that because she loves Cyrus, whatever he does is ok. Up until the very end of the book, she does not challenge him. At times it was so hard to read as she is such a smart and intelligent woman who created a platform out of nowhere but doesn’t get any credit at all, whilst her husband waltzes into fame. Asha’s character grew so much over the book, whereas Cyrus’s character became more selfish and egocentric. She became stronger and realised that she is just as worthy as her husband.

Overall: It was a really interesting and great read. It wasn’t my favourite but only because at parts it was too slow for me and also there was so much tech/nerdiness going on instead of character exploration, which is something that I wanted to see more in this book. However, this book is very well written and covers very important topics, such as the power of AI, the power of religion and faith, feminism, race and gender, the power of relationships, etc. I recommend reading it if you are interested in technology, start-ups, gender and race as well as feminism. 


About the Author: 

Tahmima Anam is an award-winning novelist, short story writer, and anthropologist. She is a fellow of the Royal Society of Literature, a Granta Best Young British Novelist, and winner of a Commonwealth Writers Prize. Her work has been published in Granta, The New York Times, and The Guardian. She was born in Dhaka, Bangladesh and lives in London, where she is on the board of ROLI, a music technology startup founded by her husband.
https://www.thestartupwife.com/
https://twitter.com/tahmima

Friday, May 6, 2022

Deesha Philyaw - The Secret Lives of Church Ladies



Deesha Philyaw - The Secret Lives of Church Ladies

4⭐

Genre: Short Stories, Fiction, Contemporary Fiction, Feminism, Race, Religion

Pages: 179

Format:  eARC on NetGalley 

Publisher: Pushkin Press

Published: 5th May 2022 (UK)

 

Big thank you to Pushkin Press for having me on the blog tour and NetGalley / Pushkin Press for the eARC.


 Book Blurb: 

The Secret Lives of Church Ladies explores the raw and tender places where black women and girls dare to follow their desires and pursue a momentary reprieve from being good. The nine stories in this collection feature four generations of characters grappling with who they want to be in the world, caught as they are between the church's double standards and their own needs and passions. With their secret longings, new love, and forbidden affairs, these church ladies are as seductive as they want to be, as vulnerable as they need to be, as unfaithful and unrepentant as they care to be, and as free as they deserve to be.


My Review: 

What a book! Perfect for when you want to take a break from your usual reads and definitely perfect to help you get out of a reading slump.

The book features nine short stories that follow different characters, although the centre stage is given to black women and girls in Southern America. All these Church Ladies, spanning over four generations, are all trying to figure out their place in the world, their desires, their passion and their needs, whilst also having a strong belief in God and his teachings.

I loved that the author explored the lives of different women, especially their inner thoughts, reasoning and passions, but also didn’t shy to show their outer characters, how vulnerable, strong, distinct, loving, caring and colourful all those women are. These stories also look at how these ladies react to pressures, standards and rules set by society and the church, and how all of that changed their lives in ways they might not even imagine.

It was such an easy and refreshing read.  I managed to devour this book in a few hours. Although, it is a book that I would love to go back and reread the separate stories, whilst giving more time to concentrate and get to know each of the heroines better in their respective stories. It is a book that is worth a place on your shelf and that you will come back to read over and over again, as each story has so much to give.

I also loved the writing style, words in this book just flows and there are no wasted words and no long-winded descriptions that would take you off the topic, everything is said for a reason and everything that has been said in these stories matter, either to the character or their story.

My favourite stories are ‘The Peach Cobbler’, ‘Dear Sister’ and ‘Instructions for Married Christian Husbands’, as they are all so powerful but at the same time made me have a rollercoaster of emotions, including laughs, tears and heartaches.

Overall: One of the best short story books I have ever read. Definitely worth reading and having on your shelf. I know that I will be re-reading it soon, especially to have a break from longer books that I am reading to give me that energy and get me out of the reading slump. 


This review was firstly published on NetGalley:  
                                      https://www.netgalley.co.uk/book/239051/review/959200


About the Author: 

Deesha Philyaw is the co-author of Co-Parenting 101: Helping Your Kids Thrive in Two Households After Divorce, written in collaboration with her ex-husband. Her work has been listed as Notable in The Best American Essays series, and her writing on race, parenting, gender, and culture has appeared in The New York Times, The Washington Post, McSweeney’s, The Rumpus, Brevity, dead housekeeping, Apogee Journal, Catapult, Cheat River Review, TueNight, ESPN’s The Undefeated and The Baltimore Review; Essence, Ebony, and Bitch magazines; and various anthologies. Deesha is a Fellow at the Kimbilio Center for African American Fiction and a past Pushcart Prize nominee for essay writing in Full Grown People.
https://www.deeshaphilyaw.com/